Since I started i've been in and out of the industry all over the place, always part time always keeping a normal day job. Ive worked in high class parlours to the lowest of non-council approved dives at times, but ive always prefered somewhere in the middle. Smaller, friendly close knit establishments always suited me best,im friendly honest and not afraid to work hard. I've always been one of the few girls happy to talk to others about what I do in the rooms, what extras I do how much I charge- i know how hard it is starting out when no one will even give you a ball park figure. I also figured, why not say? If a client comes in and you've given another girl all the tips under the sun, he picks who he wants but the girls looks and personality - if he didnt want to see me on that the service quaality means nothing - good service keeps clients - im happy for others to keep them. Ive never been competitive in brothels either im happy to earn what i earn see people who like me rather than selling myself in a pushy manner, i like to see people who just like me as me , we all get on better and can have fun.
Ive been pushed onto clients before and its not great for anyone involved, im not quite the look he was after so he isnt turned on visually as much as he could be, plus he is in the wrong head space - no one wants their "lover" chosen for them. Makes the job difficult for me, and though he leaves very happy with the service - its still not the same as if hed seen the 6ft blonde he wanted, not me becuase he was promised a good service. Mind you some of these people do become regulars, purely becuase they enjoy what I do, and maybe didnt look at me expecting that the first time.
I stayed in the first place for about 2 months then one night, Id had enough of the industry. Knowing you dont get paid if you end a shift early, I didnt care, i'd done 1 job and almost cried during it I was so sickened by what I was doing ( mind u he was a reg and a nice guy it want him that was the prob), I announced i was leaving - and i wasnt waiting for a boss to come, told them to give the money to one of the girls i was friends with, and i told her to just keep it, and the other girls could have the stuff I'd brought in to decorate my room. The reception spoke to the boss and gave me the money and I went home, I was done.
Life continued on, I changed jobs from the reception job I was doing and went to a large corporate company. There I met my soul mate, we just hit it off straight away. He was in a troubled marriage and we just got closer and closer, I refused to have sex with him though - on principle. He was always talking out what he wanted etc, then one day I had enough anfd i said to him , "so how long are you gonaa f**k me round for?"
he said hed decide in 2 weeks. After a week I knew the decision was made, so i pushed him to tell me. He told me what i didnt want to hear, if he was going to leave her it wouldnt be becuase of someone else, it would be becuase he had to. I was very upset we agreed to just be friends and I walked away crying.
My phone rang, It was one of the bosses from the housed id worked at months earlier, saying they were desperate for girls, and asked if id come back, I was so upset I said fine.
I only worked a few weeks this time, the place moved and was hareder for me to get to, and Id started net dating, and Id met someone I really liked.
I started a new relationship and everything was great we soon moved in together, I guess I always talked alot about my work experience all the fun I had with the girls, and things the extra money let me do - he said if i wanted to go it, he didnt mind and I could go back. So I did, I worked shifts at houses all over the place - but the industry was quieter now, so i decided to go private so someone else wasnt taking half the money. But then i had issues, evenw ith all the persons detals confirmed and my bf with them and call me at the end of the time I was always scared when I turned up, what if more han 1 guy is there, what if they hurt me? That and the fact i was getting about 3 hrs of calls a night advertsing in the paper my bf was finding it hard hearing me talk over and over about what I would do to all these people. I stopped working again.
Later I started in houses again, and I found a really good place, 26 Bourke Rd, Alexandria. And i worked 1 then 2 shifts for a while, nice girls, great management and it was fine. I ws fighting with bf bout other things and we eventaully broke up, with the added stress working was too much for me, so I stopped again, Id worked in a really run down place for some extra money and I just felt dirty and quit the industry. Also about this time my friend had his own issues and left his wife. I hooked up with him back to back with my relationship ending.
I started woking private again (now) becuase other than the fear I liked it more, more like being a girlfrind who someon chose particularly than, a glorified blow up doll, getting paid alot less and screwed alot more. I like having time to know people not a rushed glorified wank - which is why I do hour minimums - but prefer longer. I have a security driver this time, and my own walkie-talkie. Incalls are to the drivers house, which I have 1 room, the house is sectioned, my clients never see nayone else and I am not disturbed, but if I scream I'm not alone.
Im quite enjoying myself now, the new bf has moved in and he is fine with me working, its an open relationship as well so seeing others is not one sided and he sometime likes to hear the details of different things ive done ( not the specifics of who though, for privacy reasons). Working is ego boosting for me once again, not bringing me down, I feel at bit spesh for people wanting to see me, I enjoy the variety and being private I dont have to see 7 or 8 people in a day to generate the same income. its incredibly better.
So here I am, just being me, no bosses trying to control my image to what they feel will work better. I can just be me, and see people who want to see me becuase they like how I am. On the whole at the moment promotion in day job and working privately, having a new very functional relationship. Im feeling pretty damn good.
So thats my history, I think i'll write about different particulars from now on.
