Often people seem to be asking if they are normal, I guess since guys dont really get to chat about intimate type things with other guys besides the "i screwed this hot chick the other night it was crazy, we did all kinds of stuff", and guys dont tend to get to compare penises other than the odd peek at the urinal, they want confirmation from somewhere. Working girls is assume, well me inparticular seem to field such questions.
No this is not an invitation to bombard my inbox and msn with photos of your penises, enough people have done that already. Its merely a little expose from what ive seen of the significant number of men ive seen over the years.
Firstly, penis size.
I think, because of porn so many guys feel quite inadequate, not suprised since porno pee pee's tend to be in the "monster cock" category. Having a penis that large is not average, nor do i think its quite as useful as all it will do is hurt/injure your average type female. So what is the mean/average penis size? Well from my sample which id like to consider statistically significant, and including across all ages/races/body types - I'd estimate from about 4.5-6 inches in length and about a 20c piece in thickness - when fully aroused of course. But before you whack down your jocks, break out the lube and find a ruler, there is much more to good sex that having a regular type penis. Penises come in all sizes, shapes and colours - and no particular attributes guarantee a great feeling on the receiving end. Ive had penises and the low end of the scale rock my world and large ones which bring nothing but a full feeling, ive had small penies that seem to hit no effective spots and larger ones that made me moan in delight, ive had all matter of inbetween sizes be both good, bad and indifferent. Some penises are bent one way or the other like a banana, some are shaped like traffic cones thick at the base and small at the top(these are hard to keep a condom on) some are like reverse traffic cones, some are two toned, some have foreskins so tight you cant pull it back over the head of the penis without hurting its owner, some have so much foreskin you could store half an orange in there. No two penises are alike, so there is no set best way to make use of them. So the penis you have, is what tool you have to work with, and without surgery or some nasty devices there isnt much you can change about it. But why should you want to, you should be happy with your below the belt friend, he brings you pleasure- and if you use him right - he can bring others pleasure too!
Now the thing with all these different penises is that there are all so all these different shapped vaginas, deep, shallow, tight, looser, and all matter of configuration of prefernces in pleasure points. So whilst you may be dynamite dick with one chick it may do very little for another when used in the same manner. Now this may seem frustrating at first, but its not, its part of the fun of having sex with new people, discovering what works best for you, missionary, doggie - fast or slow, what angle, what pace. Of course before you get to this part is foreplay - could be tongue, fingers on clit or inside, gentle or rough, fast or slow - again its all variable.
The trick to being the horizontal mambo master is reading your partners body language, finding what she likes and continuing to do that :)
Secondly, Fetishes.
So many people so many fetishes. Often people wonder if they are particuarly unusual or kinky, and more often than not i get fairly similar kinds of requests. So ive decided to list off the most common requests in order of most often requested.
1.Natural french swallow
2.Anal stimulation with toys/strapon on male
3.Female jism/ squirting
4.threesomes - with another girl or guy both bi and straight
5.foot/shoe fetish
6.costumes
7.anal sex - on me
8.roleplay
9.B&D type things (low level almost always)- includes tie and tease, whips, spanking, humiliation, crossdressing.
10.natural french with facial
11.snowballing (cum transferred from mouth to mouth)
12.swing clubs
I do get lots of other requests as well but these are the most popular.
So there we go- now you know what is normal/average :)
