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Last few months been a bit of a downer. My husband got fired without warning a few moths back. Since he was on a sponsored business visa, he had to apply for another visa or leave country in 28 days. So we put in a spouse visa application, having been married over 12 months already. Seems they liked him, and not so much me. Requiring more business docs from me and a statutory declaration describing my previous de facto relationships and why they ended to prove i wasn't just relationship hopping and that this would last.

Later on however, after giving all the extra documents required it seemed that everything still wasn't right. The case manager had issues with my career choice, and if it effected the genuine nature of our relationship - since it isn't sexually exclusive. We opted to provide further statutory declarations justifying why my career doesn't prevent our relationship from being genuine to save potentially requiring another interview and their judgement becoming a turn down and us having to appeal.

They recently came to their senses and the first part of the visa has now been granted normal life may resume. A huge emotional weight has been listed. It's very stressful to feel judged for your life in a way you haven't before, and for someone else to get to decide if you are genuinely in love or not.

The bulk of our statements follow.

I keep thinking i should wait to blog til I have something suitably fantastically interesting to write about, but then it takes over 6 months and well yeah, that is kinda crap. Thus I decided I would just sit down and have a bit of a yap.

End of last year - other than the tours and Scarlet Alliance Annual forum - was reasonably uneventful.

I did get a new camera for my birthday though here are some random shots taken with it...

The friendly guys over at Sex Machines Australia have had a bit of a thing going with a record for the number of women to orgasm at one event without being hypnotised or touched sexually. Thursday, when Sexpo opened their little running total scoreboard said 0 for Sydney Sexpo. I had to help them with that, I got a certificate for my "trouble" and we took a bunch of photos for proof.

In case you hadn't spoken to me somewhat recently on msn, or follow me on facebook, I thought I'd tell you about my weddings. Yup, I had 2 of them and both to the same person, well technically the second one was just a restatement of vows but it was only a month later so it's close enough.

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Finally I have got round to scanning and uploading the article published about me in Cosmopolitan!

I went in Mardi Gras parade and whilst there were many many many cameras I haven't found hardly any pictures of myself around the place online, but have found plenty of our section. We all had red umbrellas and a large banner which read "No bad whores, just bad laws" Click the more link if you are viewing this on the front page to see the whole entry with pictures. I will add more pictures to this entry as I find them.

Click here for photos from Scarlet Alliance web site some of which include me!

Once again I have left my blog unattended to, I'm such a naughty girl I will have to be punished. But before the sadists of you start reaching for your tools there is once again good reason, I get busy :)

Christmas, new year, wedding plans, bookings computer games......
Yep you heard it right, I'm getting hitched, but don't panic I'll not be disappearing again my career is here to stay for the foreseeable future.

I am in this month's (March issue since they bring it out a month early) Cosmopolitan magazine if you happen to be in a newsagent or a waiting room that has it, it has a pink cover. Unfortunately I didn't get a blurb on the cover, but I got a mention in the contents listing and a nice shiny 2 page detailed interview. Some of the details included seem a little not quite as a remember saying but generally it's not a bad piece. I promise to get round to scanning and uploading it at some point in the future.

In Monday's MX you may have seen, if you accepted one of these papers handed to you at a Sydney train station, there was an interview with me published. The article was almost half a page in size you can click the above thumnail to see a large version or click the more to see a medium sized version and my original replies as it was slightly shortened.

I've been quiet as I have been recovering yet again. As the sage of my injuries continues - I decided to take myself off the hard core pain killers - cold turkey. I got fed up with the side effects, not the weight loss, but the digestive upset, always feeling nauseous but mostly struggling to orgasm, I'd get really really close and hardly ever get there and even when I did it was kinda painful. So I ripped off the painkiller patch and didn't put another on.

Full details in the extended(more) section.

Also APEC long weekend we decided to escape the 24 hour chopper patrol. It's hard to sleep with all that noise and searchlights flashing about. Details and pictures from the trip also in the full entry.

I went to Hellfire and took some pictures of me dressed up before this time. I was trying out a new kinda 1950's look. The night was fairly normal, well as normal as hellfire gets. But with the no smoking inside laws I was standing outside in the alley topless smoking. The pictures are below in the full length entry.

The following is my response in a topic on FIA to someone who posted about a relationship with a working lady that went sour. The poster mused whether working ladies were capable of loving at all, if they spend all their time lying to men having sex with people they wouldn't otherwise just to get money.
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Well reading this at first i was a bit offended, but on further thought and a small chat to my partner I have come to this conclusion.

Firstly 1 or 2 experiences if we count your friends is not a statistically significant sample.

Also some people never love anyone, and some people love many and some people see sex as a social activity not an emotional one, some people like being social with strangers.

Main thought however. lets say for arguments sake 20% of women are just bitches. And lets say 3% of women are working ladies. (these statistics are made up) There will be a portion of working ladies who are also bitches. I reckon you drew the short straw to start with and then you weren't happy with her working as well.

Ok, ok, ok. I am a bit behind on doing stuff for my site. I have good reason however. I am recovering from some injuries. I didn't really want to blog about it sooner because i was worried it would put people off seeing me. I'm far better now however so I can go ahead and bring you all up to speed.

Some people have already chatted to me about what happened to me on good friday, if you are one of those you can feel free to skip the rest of this entry.

This entry isn't a happy nice entry, and I contemplated if I should post it since realistically my website is here for marketing purposes. I decided that I do want my blog to be very genuine, raw and truthful look into my life. Sure maybe some of my entries will put people off me, and I may lose business - but so be it. I ideally only want to spend time with people who like me just as I am, not just for seeing the happy shiny side of my life.

Yet another blog entry of a post i made on FIA.

Now you may expect it to be a highly defensive post justifying what privates charge. It's not. I'm not sure how to describe what it is in a general sense, but it is quite long. I rate this entry as being my $1.87 not just 2c.

I had a very interesting conversation with someone named Brendan on MSN the other day. I mention his name as he said I could, in fact he said he would dig it if I did. It was about whether or not I enjoy all the fantasy stuff I offer or if I only do it as just part of my job.

If anyone has questions or things they'd like to see me blog about just let me know! I have a list of things I want to blog about that I intend to work through so there will probably be many blog updates in the next week. I may back date some of them so that this entry stay on the front page for more than one day.

If you are interested in seeing the chat log then read on...